Christlikeness

"Becoming like Christ does not mean losing your personality or becoming a mindless clone. God created your uniqueness, so he certainly doesn't want to destroy it. Christlikeness is all about transforming your character, not your personality... Every time you forget that character is one of God's purposes for your life, you will be frustrated by your circumstances... [I]f you fall for the idea that life is supposed to be easy, either you will become severely disillusioned or you will live in denial of reality."

-- The Purpose-Driven Life by Rick Warren